STREETLY, STAFFORDSHIRE MEMORIES  (1936 - 1961)

THURSDAY 21st DECEMBER 1944
- CHRISTMAS IS COMING -

by Chris Myers
 




Thursday 21st December 1944

It's Thursday, December 21st. Christmas Day is next Monday. I'm very excited, of course.

I've just broken up from school after my first term at Bishop Vesey's Junior School. It's gone all right after a not very good start. I've just about got used to it and being the youngest boy in the class. I'm still eight. I've even made one or two friends. Well, I think they're friends. We've now all left our classroom until after Christmas. There the criss-cross tape is still on the windows in case of bombs but at home we don't have to put up the blackout blinds any more. Goofy, our teacher (his real name is Mr. Gifford), handed out envelopes before we left. I think my Report was  inside. I now know what it says because Dad has shown it to me. I don't think it's too bad and Mum and Dad seem happy with it.

The Report tells Mum and Dad that there are 30 boys in the Form with an average age of 9 years and 9 months. My age is 8 years and 8 months, so I am the youngest (and have to try really hard to keep up). I am 4ft 5" tall and weigh 4st. 6lbs.  My best marks are for spelling and my worst is Divinity.  That doesn't surprise me too much! What does surprise me though is that Mr. Bradley calls me "Fairly good" and puts me at 10th in the class for Physical Training. I think the 10th is probably a mistake. Nearly all the other boys seem bigger and stronger than me. Although I do try to do my best. 

At the bottom of the Report, this is what Goofy has to say about me.

I think he is a kind man.

Goofy also gave us a piece of blue paper with a lot of printing on it. Some of the older boys said that it was our Dog Licence. We were told to fold it just above the line which said "....advise the Headmaster in writing one clear day before your son returns to School...." and give it to our parents. Goodness knows what's special about one day when there isn't any cloud. Mum seems to understand it, though. She says it's something to do with infectious diseases.

Anyway, that's School all done with for now and we don't have to go back until January 12th and we have Christmas in four days time. Yippee!

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The pudding and the Christmas cake have been made and I have licked the spoon, like I always do. I like Christmas cake but not the pudding. My sister Sheila tells me that is daft because they are almost the same thing. I don't think they are at all. Pudding doesn't have any icing on it, for a start. Or marzipan. No doubt about mince pies, though.  I love them.  And Mum makes lovely pastry.

The main trouble with Christmas is that sometimes you have to go to church. I really hate that. Mum and Sheila are very keen, and not just at Christmas. I'm not and they both think I should be. Every now and again I can't get out of it and I have to go with them. (Dad never seems to have to and I don't know how he gets out of it). I do think quite a lot about why I hate it so much. I believe in God and Jesus and all that. But I do almost anything to avoid going to church. I just feel so uncomfortable there. Mum seems to become a different person. She doesn't belong to me any more. She says the prayers in a funny voice, all humble and pleading and almost whiney, asking for forgiveness and that sort of thing. And she warbles in a funny way during the hymns. And the vicar reads stuff out of the Bible. All the sentences seem to start with "And". And everyone knows that you should never start a sentence with "and", although sometimes you do it without thinking. The worst thing for me is the prayers bit. It's bad enough listening to Mum. But as well you are supposed to get down on your knees. I find that very EMBARRASSING. I feel that everyone must be looking at me. So I try to get away with just perching on the edge of the seat with my head down. That seems to do the trick, most of the time, even though it's jolly uncomfortable. I expect that over the next day or two the whole subject will come up and I shall just have to make myself very scarce when it does.

This is where I have to go when I can't get away with it.  It's called All Saints Church, and it's in Foley Road, Streetly.  It's an old picture taken from Middleton Road, probably from thirty or forty years ago when it was first built. Now there's a proper pavement around the corner and a halt sign.  They've done the road surface as well. (Although they haven't done Featherston Road.  That's even more stony than this). The church itself hasn't changed though.  Mr. Sandwith is the Vicar.



I think this photo of Sheila, me and Mum gives you an idea of how much I like going to church and how I look when the subject comes up, especially if I have just lost the argument. Of course it might have been something else when Dad took the picture. Because church isn't the only thing I argue with my sister about. That happens whenever she wants to have her own way and it's different from mine. I usually lose arguments like that. But the picture looks very much like last Easter and that's another time in the year when they always have a go at me about church. Dad didn't tick me off for trying to spoil a nice picture and so I think he feels that us blokes should stick together at times like these.

One of my friends told me his mum had said that I was almost a heathen. I think it's better if I don't mention that at home.

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Sheila has got to know an American soldier. She probably met him at the Ice Rink in Birmingham. We are not allowed to call him her boyfriend. He's very nice. He has visited us once or twice. He brings some chewing gum for me and a tin of peaches or Spam for Mum and Dad. (He calls them cans, not tins). Mum and Dad go mad over the peaches. He always looks very smart in his uniform which is lovely and smooth, not at all like Dad's Home Guard uniform which he used to wear. That's rough and itchy.

His name is Bob. He is the first American I have ever met and he isn't what I expected at all. Americans usually have a horse and a big cowboy's hat, or they talk loudly and smoke a big cigar and make wisecracks, especially if they are detectives. Or they are soldiers fighting the Japs and then they are smoking a cigarette and wearing a funny shaped helmet with the strap dangling down one side and not done up at the chin. I have seen all these Americans at the Avion in Aldridge or the Empress in Sutton. That's why I know what they are usually like. Bob isn't like this at all. He is quiet and gentle. I don't know how old he is, probably about 19 or 20. Dad likes him but does laugh at him a bit. He said the other day that he couldn't imagine Bob running at the Germans with murder in his eyes. Dad knows a bit about all this because he was in the trenches in 1918, in the last war. Bob was wounded in Normandy during the summer but he certainly looks OK now, to me. He lives at a place called Pheasey with a lot of other Americans. He isn't allowed to write home to tell his own mum and dad about his injury and how he is and what he is doing and where. So Dad has written to them himself. The letter has gone off but will take ages to get there. We don't expect a reply for a long, long time. I don't know if Bob will be sent back to the fighting, eventually.

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My brother Graham who is in Italy has met quite a lot of Americans. He's not at all happy when their planes are dropping their bombs too close to him. He's been stuck in the Italian mountains for weeks. They have tried to move forward, towards a town called Bologna, but the Germans have been too strong and the weather is dreadful. Now he's in a tiny hamlet, with all the guns and lorries and things. It's called Belvedere.

Because there isn't much to do, he's been repairing roads which are in a terrible state. The Yanks have bulldozers but mainly he and his mates just have picks and shovels. He says that they live in a hovel and there is an anti-aircraft gun just outside to protect them all. The blokes who man it tell him that they haven't fired it since Salerno a year ago. They stand around their gun in the evening, singing carols, and when it gets dark they sometimes join Graham and the others in their room, sitting around the stove and helping to drink what little they have is. Everyone feels sorry for them because they have a very boring job. Until recently, there were two American artillery batteries next door as well which the Germans could see and often tried to shell.

Here are some of the Yanks at Belvedere and a couple of their vehicles.



They have now moved out and Graham said in his last letter:

"We miss some of their familiar faces, their cigar smoke and the occasional box they handed around, but we are glad enough to see the last of their guns. I also believe that it was this small group who were responsible for giving me my first experience of the taste of canned beer. Pretty dreadful too, although the fault lay probably with the brewing and not the canning! As time goes on the tiny hamlet of about three houses has become home to people from a number of different units: apart from the Americans, there is an RAF detachment manning an observation post and even a scattering of civilians to be seen around us during daylight".

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I don't know exactly what I'm getting for Christmas. But I expect one of the things will be the latest Rupert Annual. I like that and it's all in colour. I suppose I'm getting a bit old for it but as long as I don't mention it to the older boys, it's all OK. I can show you a picture of it. Of course I shall have to act all surprised and pleased when I unwrap it, because that's polite. But I know it's going to look exactly like this because it's the 1945 Annual and it's in the bookshops already.

Also I'll probably get the Daily Mail Annual where there are jolly good stories and puzzles and things. I get quite a lot of books, for birthdays and Christmas, and I really like them. They are usually new. You can still buy new books. Toys are different though. If you get anything new it'll almost certainly be home-made. I've had quite a lot of presents like that and sometimes they are super. Dad has made a lot of things for me. My cousins, Pat and Brian Summers who live in Kingstanding, are good at making things as well and I often get a nice present from them. Last year it was something on a little board. The corner of an aerodrome with a hut and a road and two little lorries, made out of balsa wood and all painted khaki. One of the lorries was a lot smaller than the other - too small really. It had got buttons for wheels and so they didn't go round. But it was still nice. They must have spent hours and hours making it all for me.

I haven't seen any new Hornby Trains or Dinky Toys in the shops for as long as I can remember. But last year I had a cardboard box with some Hornby in it, a bit battered but all OK. Track and points and some trucks and even two engines. Things that I had never seen before, only in pictures in the Meccano Magazine. I still think about the boy who probably once owned them before he grew up and his Mum and Dad putting an advert in the Birmingham Mail to sell them. I wonder who he was and where he is now and what he is doing.

(I spend a lot of time reading through the Meccano Magazine. I'm allowed to look at all my brother's old prewar ones. If you look at the wartime Meccano Magazines you'll see an advert every time which says something like "We are sorry, boys and girls, but at the moment we can't make the toys you want. But be patient, when peace comes...")

I do wish it would.

I still hang up my stocking. Well, I'm a very lucky boy, and so, for me, it isn't a stocking but a pillow case. And I still leave a mince-pie for Father Christmas. When I wake up (even though I don't feel I've ever been to sleep because I'm so excited) there are just crumbs on the plate and the pillow case is bulging with all sorts of lovely things. I surprised myself not so long ago. I was talking to some of my friends about Father Christmas. For something to say, I told them that I thought it was probably the parents. The thought had just come into my mind, from nowhere. Probably I'm right, I suppose. It would explain a lot. But I'm not shouting about it at the moment. There's a saying. It's "Leave well alone". Just think about my sister who's 17. She puts up a stocking, a real one. Or a sock, really. All I can ever remember her getting is an orange and perhaps another little thing. It's funny. She seems quite happy with just that. But of course now she won't be getting an orange because you never see them. They are almost as rare as bananas which I don't remember seeing, except in pictures, although I think I might just remember what they taste like. So goodness knows what will be in her stocking when she wakes up. Possibly an apple or a small bar of chocolate. Or perhaps it might be one of Bob's tins of peaches.

It will all be fun. The postman will call on Christmas morning and Dad will insist he comes in for a glass of something and then we shall see him lurch off down the road to his next customer. Mum will say he's tiddly. Bob will join us. He'll have to walk all the way from Pheasey. We are having a cockerel. That's super. A chicken is a real treat. We only have one on very special occasions. Then we'll listen to the King on the wireless. Mum gets nervous because she is a kind person and knows that he doesn't find it easy, talking like that. Then at the end she'll look at Dad and will say "I thought he did ever so well, don't you, dearest?" And Dad will nod. And then later we'll be in the lounge which we don't often use and so that makes the day really special. The Christmas tree which I helped my sister to decorate with all its pretty pre-war things is standing in the front window. And the paper chains we made together - they go around the walls and join up at the light in the middle of the ceiling where the mistletoe is. The fire will burn brightly in the grate and we shall invite our neighbour around. Her husband has been stuck in Malta for years and so she's probably lonely. And we'll talk and play games and listen to the wireless and I'll read my new books. We will be warm and cosy and happy and we'll forget all about the world outside.

Except that we shall think of my brother, somewhere in the Italian mountains, in rain and snow, and wonder how he will be spending his Christmas Day and what sort of Christmas dinner he'll have had. And perhaps Bob will be thinking of a little town in America where another Mum and Dad will be looking at an empty place at their own table and hoping and praying that he will one day return safely to them.

From here in our house on the Chester Road in Streetly, I wish everyone a Very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year for 1945 - when perhaps peace will come, but who knows?

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Grateful acknowledgement is also made to:
-  the unknown original source of the church and book images, and to
- the several owners of the Myers Family Archive of which all other images shown on this page are a part.
 

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